This probably calls for a response from some of our younger members.
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....drunk screaming girls wearing fairy wings and carrying massive inflatable .. etc ..
does tend to be rather synonymous with hen nights.
The best place to start your search for ideas it with the very knowledgeable Mr Google. I did a quick search and came up with many different ideas. Suggest that you get together well ahead of time and discuss any ideas you might have between you. It might be a night away somewhere over a weekend and it could simply involve a party for the girls - even a barbecue at this time of the year - chick flicks, snacks, jewellery party or similar.
I seem to remember having my night with the girls when I was 19. We stayed in, played games, didn't get drunk, but somehow managed to have a fun night together.